The Mandarin Oriental Hotel

Welcome Party

Wave Hill Botanical Garden

Wedding Day

Fall

Our Wedding

Ashlyn and Ben met through Hinge in late 2020 — and, apparently, the algorithm knew what it was doing, as they matched as each other’s “Most Compatible.”-Their first date was at Jackdaw in the East Village, where they sat outside in December due to COVID-19 restrictions. The restaurant had different hours than what was posted online, and was actually closing within 45 minutes of their arrival — a memorable start to a relationship.-Within two months of dating, Ashlyn adopted a cat, Toast, despite Ben being allergic (and despite Ashlyn soon realizing she technically is too, even though she grew up with cats). In 2024, they adopted their sheltie puppy, Riley, who they are convinced is the world’s smallest Sheltie. They even looked into the Guinness World Records for proof — though the record book doesn’t record this (they looked into it…twice).-Ashlyn brought her love of running into the relationship, including running the NYC Marathon in 2023. Ben introduced her to his love of winter sports — specifically skiing. She’s still working on it, but she’s getting there.-On November 9, 2024, Ben proposed in Central Park — after luring Ashlyn there by saying they were taking Riley for a walk. They were late to their own engagement because Ashlyn insisted on stopping for a chicken sandwich (because why not wander on a lovely Saturday?). All their friends and family were waiting at a bar to celebrate afterward — just like Ashlyn wanted.-They’re so excited to celebrate with everyone at the wedding this October!

  Where It Started

The Backstory

Engagement Photos

Harry Moreland 

Taylor Schofield

Shelby has been Ashlyn’s best friend since they met in Kindergarten speech class, sharing nearly 25 years of memories from chaotic road trips to countless concerts!

Shelby LeVasseur

Megan is the bride’s “college friend met after college,” and somehow they’ve packed so many adventures into just a few years—mostly thanks to Megan always being up for (and planning) the trip.

Megan Gauer

Jules has been Ashlyn’s friend since their middle school bus days, carrying that bond through UConn, late‑night projects, and years of adventures.

Jules Chen

Meghan has been Ashlyn’s friend since their middle school track and cross‑country days, sharing years of race weekends, inside jokes, and memories.

Meghan Foote

Lindsay has been Ashlyn's built‑in best friend from the start, sharing everything from childhood pool days and Christmas shenanigans, as cousins who grew up together!

Lindsay Coxhead

Ashlyn & Jackie met as work friends and just six months later, were crossing the country together on a Canada trip—our first clue we were in it for the long haul!

Jackie Jessop

Wedding Party

Welcome PartyFor the welcome party, we invite guests to wear suit and tie or a jacket for men, and dresses or dressy separates for women. WeddingPlease join us in formal attire.For men: a dark suit or tuxedo with dress shoes.For ladies: floor-length gowns or cocktail-length dresses.The ceremony and reception will be primarily outdoors on October 3, 2026, so consider breathable fabrics and a light wrap for evening breezes.

Dress Code

Q + A

Welcome to New York City everyone, we are so glad you'll be able to celebrate our wedding with us! We have arranged two hotel block options where shuttles will be provided to and from the venue.

Check In: October 2, 2026Check Out: October 4, 2026Note: Please book this location by September 2

Loews Regency New York

Check In: October 2, 2026Check Out: October 4, 2026Note: Please book this location by August 16

Ben & Ashlyn

Ben & Ashlyn

B&A

Welcome Party

Wedding Day